Bereavement Counselling: Understanding the Healing Journey
Losing a loved one is one of life’s most painful challenges. It’s natural to feel overwhelmed by grief and loss. Bereavement affects us all at some point, and yet, it’s not often openly discussed. If you are struggling with the pain of losing someone important, know that you are not alone, and there is support available.
While some may find comfort in talking to friends and family, others may feel judged or misunderstood. Bereavement counselling provides a private, confidential space where you can grieve at your own pace, without the pressure of others’ opinions on how long or in what way you should mourn.
So what can we do when our grieving process takes longer or differs significantly from those around us, or we feel that the support we had is on the wane?
Understanding Bereavement Counselling: Empathy and Support During Grief
Bereavement counselling is unique in that it focuses not on finding solutions but on helping you navigate through the pain of loss. There is no “quick fix” for grief. Instead, this process is about supporting you as you adjust to life without your loved one, learning how to cope with your emotions, and finding a path forward at your own pace.
Grief has no set timeframe, and there is no "solution" to bring your loved one back. Bereavement counselling isn’t about rushing your healing process – it’s about offering you a safe, understanding space where you can express your emotions, process your feelings, and begin to adjust to life after loss at your own pace.
How does it work?
The Healing Process: Exploring Your Grief
The best way I can explain it to you is that a bereavement counsellor will work with you whilst you learn to cope with your grief and adjust to life without the person who has passed. They will step with you into the darkness and engage with empathy and understanding of what you are experiencing and feel it from your point of view. In bereavement counselling, you will have the time and space to talk about your loss without judgment. This safe environment helps you process your grief and find ways to cope, offering you the emotional support you need to begin healing and adjusting to life without your loved one.
Grief is a Personal Journey: Finding Your Path to Healing
Everyone’s grief is unique. While some may find comfort in talking to friends and family, others may feel judged or misunderstood. Bereavement counselling provides a private, confidential space where you can grieve at your own pace, without the pressure of others’ opinions on how long or in what way you should mourn.
Finding a New Normal: Adjusting to Life After Loss
This process of adjustment has no set timescales and is completely individual to each person. While life may never return to what it was before, bereavement counselling helps you find acceptance and gradually adjust to a new normal. This process doesn’t mean forgetting your loved one – it’s about learning how to live with the loss and finding a way to experience joy and meaning in life once more.
The whirpool of grief
The "Whirlpool of Grief" by Dr. Richard Wilson is a powerful metaphor for the emotional chaos that can follow the loss of a loved one. Just like a whirlpool, grief can pull you under unexpectedly. As your bereavement counsellor, I will support you as you navigate these difficult emotions, helping you find a sense of stability and healing as you move through the process of loss.
In the illustration the “River of Life”, is the representation of our lives before the bereavement, the whirlpool represents the loss and the chaos we can experience through experiencing that loss.
As your bereavement counsellor I will help you navigate this and help you grieve in a way to aid the healing process.
Practical Tips for Coping with Grief
If you think bereavement counselling would be useful to you, please give me a call on 07800 968681 or drop me an email to discuss or book an appointment. Secondly, be kind to yourself, this process will take time and can’t be rushed, what you are experiencing is natural and normal.
Self-care is a vital part of your healing process. Take time to do things that bring you comfort and peace, whether it’s spending time in nature, watching a comforting movie, or enjoying a relaxing bath. Every step you take toward nurturing your body and mind helps you process your grief in a healthy way.
Talking about your loss is important, reminisce, remember, tell stories and share your experiences and memories of the person you have lost. Counselling can provide you with the safe environment to talk about the person you have lost.
Get In Touch
Get in Touch – I’m Here to Help
If you’re ready to start your healing journey, or if you have any questions about how counselling can support you, please don’t hesitate to reach out. I’m here to walk with you through this process, offering the guidance and support you need to heal at your own pace.
You can call or text me at 07800 968681 (please leave a voicemail) or email me directly using the contact form.
I look forward to connecting with you and exploring how we can work together to help you heal and move forward."
Session Details and Pricing
I offer 50-minute sessions for counselling, which are tailored to your unique needs and can be held in person in Beaconsfield, online, or by phone. Sessions are priced at £70 for individuals and £90 for couples. Payment is made in advance via BACS.
Whether you prefer face-to-face support or the convenience of virtual therapy, I’m here to help you every step of the way. Investing in your mental health is one of the most important decisions you can make. If you’re ready to start your healing journey, I’m here to support you every step of the way."
